Most “males” are more insecure than women. Notice I referred to a “male” and not a “man," as there is a distinct difference. Many males have VERY low self esteem. You can tell, that’s why he says, “I only f*ck with bad bitches.” He is saying this to convince himself, attempting to drown out his insecurities that are on repeat inside of his own mind.
By cheating on a good woman, it makes a weak minded male feel he has POWER over her. It makes him feel he is worth more than her. A male knows if he cheats on a loyal woman, she will care about him more. Yes, initially she will be shocked a man has the audacity to cheat on her, especially with an UGLY woman.
Then she will try to stay with him to PROVE to him she is better than the girl he cheated on her with. To prove to herself she can fight for love and can help him by help changing a bad boy into a good man, fooling herself. This is reverse psychology. A weak minded male just got a Good Woman to mentally submit herself to a mentally immature man, purely by cheating on her. Males use cheating to TRICK a good woman into SETTLING for him. But this mind game many males play cannot and will not work on a Loyal woman who knows her WORTH.
Men must realize that ONE woman who holds them down and stays by their side, after they cheat on her, lie to her, hurt her, use her and disrespect her over & over & over, is NOT loyal. She is WEAK. She is poisonous. She will hold back your growth as a Man. Don’t be fooled & think a girl telling you what you want to hear is loyalty.
A Loyal, Strong Minded Woman will speak her mind, regardless of what anyone thinks. Tell your man the TRUTH. Tell him when he is WRONG. A Loyal woman will not allow a man to hurt her multiple times & still accept him. That is NOT loyalty. Not at all. That is Pacifying. Babying. Appeasing.
Males are not men... Loyal ladies get in here!
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