My Boyfriend And I

Hehehehehehehehehe... I have never laughed so hard! Once upon a time in the land of stupidity! *drums rolling* ...And suddenly, the Holy Spirit intervenes, and she realizes she deserves way better than this!

Yes, some of us ladies have been there, done that. Sometimes we stay committed to a man who's already in a relationship, giving our all and getting little or nothing in return. Probably hoping that he'd be ours someday. Most times, it is simply because we truly love this person. Is that a bad thing? No. Love hard or don't love at all. Give everything, BUT if you don't get the same in return, it means you're loving the wrong person.

If you have to wonder about a person's love, it probably doesn't exist. True love can't be hid or confused. True love is upright and true. The people in your life should bring peace, not stress. If you can't enjoy the moment because you're constantly stressing over a relationship, it's time to make a change.

These men? They know what they do to us. So it is our responsibility to be wise enough not to let them drain us emotionally, physically, financially and even spiritually. The choice is ours to become victims or victorious.

When you realize you're being taken for granted, it's time to take yourself serious and walk away. It's okay to make mistakes, but learn from them. You can't keep dancing with the devil and wondering why you're still in hell.

When the love is real, you'll see a glow. Life feels blessed, not cursed. You're not struggling everyday. You're not anticipating your next argument. Love puts you at ease, not on edge. If it's real, you'll know. The love without motives. The love for the love, not for the looks. That real love is rare, but it's out there.

Say after me: Lord, if it's not your will, let it slip through my grasp and give me the peace to accept it. Amen.

With these few points of mine... Hehehehehehehehehe. Love you, darlings! 😘😘😘😘😘😘