What You Allow Is What Will Continue

I never understood the concept of being in a relationship without the title. I don't see how you can lay and cuddle with someone, go out and have fun with, have conversations, exchange intimate words, give your body, time and energy and a large piece of your heart and mind to someone you're not with or intend to be with in the near future.

"We are more than friends but less than a couple?" Stay out of the grey area, don't let the new norm fool you into thinking this is okay. It's not. Never was, never will be. You're just with them for entertainment and temporary fulfilment to pass the time, which is a WASTE OF TIME.

You built a bond with someone for no reason. Half the time, one person wants the actual relationship but settles. I feel like situations like this are becoming super common and are devaluing the sacredness of relationships, marriage and love. Either IT IS or IT ISN'T. Because one thing is for sure... Love is never uncertain and it's never undecided.

People will continue to make excuses for why they can't be with you while still getting all the benefits of a relationship without having to commit for as long as you allow it. When someone really wants you, they will find a way to show you, they will find a way to make time, they will WANT you to know for a fact that they want you.

When someone really wants you, it's extremely hard to resist the urge to let you know it. Live in reality, not in denial. You deserve to be happy. Not in the arms of someone who keeps you waiting, but in the arms of someone who'd take you now, love you forever and leave you never.

If they don't have enough heart to decide, they don't deserve to hold your heart in their hands. When you truly know your self worth, you know exactly what you will and won't put up with. Stop saying "goodnight" to people who deserve "goodbye!" What you allow is what will continue.